Trauma comes in all shapes and sizes. There are no one-size-fits-all reactions. Everyone is dealing with something that will shape our reactions and when severe enough, there’s a change in our personality. It’s the change in our personality that the world around us has a problem with.
We are creatures of habit and most don’t like change even though it’s inevitable. We will fight it tooth and nail in the name of comfort. But are we really comfortable? Or are we playing up to someone else’s wants ingrained into society to aid them in their explorations?
No matter what your beliefs are, we, as the individual, are the only ones that can reprogram our reactions to benefit us. Self-improvement isn’t solely about healing a trauma but about becoming a better person than you were yesterday. Trauma incidents just tend to force us to reevaluate life and take a new appreciation for what we already have. Do your future self a favor, change your mind, explore, and be curious. Be willing to make mistakes. The changes will happen even if they are small ones. We’re in a marathon, not a sprint.